Body Language

Tuesday, July 17, 2012

Woman Body Language

Casually people want to know what say other people? Specially interested in girl/woman.There are some information about woman body language.The gesture of covering the mouth alerts the parent to the lie and this gesture continues to be used throughout the individual’s lifetime, usually varying only in the speed at which it is done. When the teenager tells a lie, the hand is brought to the mouth like that of a five-year-old, but instead of the obvious hand slapping gesture over the mouth, the fingers rub lightly around it under the picture.

1.Fingers in the Mouth : Dr. Morris’s explanation of this gesture is that the fingers are placed in the mouth when a person is under pressure. It is an unconscious attempt by the person to revert to the security of the child sucking on his mother’s breast. The young child substitutes his thumb for the breast and as an adult, he not only puts his fingers to his mouth but inserts such things as cigarettes, pipes, pens and the like into it. Whereas most hand-to-mouth gestures involve lying or deception, the fingers-in-mouth gesture is an outward manifestation of an inner need for reassurance. Giving the person guarantees and assurances is appropriate when this gesture appears under the picture.

 

2.Partial Arm-Cross Barriers : The full arm-cross gesture is sometimes too obvious to use around others because it tells them that we are fearful. Occasionally we substitute a subtler version - the partial arm cross, in which one arm swings across the body to hold or touch the other arm to form the barrier, as shown under the picture.

 

3.The Foot Lock:This gesture is almost exclusively used by women. The top of one foot locks around the other leg to reinforce a defensive attitude and, when this gesture appears, you can be sure that the woman has become a mental recluse or has retreated like a tortoise into her shell.A warm, friendly, low-key approach is needed if you eventually hope to open this clam. This position is common to shy or timid women.I recall an interview in which a new salesman was trying to sell insurance to a young married couple. The sale was unsuccessful and the new salesman could not understand why he had lost it, because he had followed the sales track perfectly. I pointed out that he had failed to notice that the woman was sitting with a tight foot lock position throughout the interview. Had the salesman understood the significance of this gesture, he could have involved her in the sales presentation, and might have achieved a better result.

4.In the picture-

This woman disapproves of the person at whom she is looking. She has turned neither her head nor body toward him but is giving him a sideways glance with her head slightly down (disapproval), eyebrows slightly turned down (anger), a full arm-cross gesture (defensive) and the corners of her mouth are turned down.

5.Mouth Slightly Open, Wet Lips Dr Desmond Morris describes this as ‘self mimicry’ as it is intended to symbolize the female genital region. The lips can be made to appear wet either by the use of saliva or cosmetics. Both give the woman the appearance of sexual invitation.

6.This woman is probably cold but she wish to go toilet,as seen as under the picture

7.Eye Contact : Many sayings hold that the eye is the window to the mind. This is very true to illustrating the power of eye contact in nonverbal communication. Eye contact can maintain, yield, deny and request communication between people. People who use eye contact are viewed as confident, credible and having nothing to hide. Some important do’s and do not’s of eye contact are:
·  If you have trouble staring someone in the eye, simply focus at something on their face
·  When speaking to a group look at everyone
·  Look at people who are key decision makers or hold power
·  Look at reactive listeners
·  Don’t look at the floor, scripts or anything that causes you to tilt your head away form the receiver
·  Don’t look at bad listeners that may distract you.